We are addicted to the spark. We chase the butterflies, the uncertainty, the anxious thrill of wondering if they will text back. We mistake anxiety for passion and instability for chemistry. And in this relentless pursuit of the “feeling,” we often walk right past the person who is actually ready to love us. We overlook […]
We are taught to fear the explosion. We look for the slammed doors, the screaming matches, the suitcases thrown haphazardly into a car. We think the end of a relationship looks like a war zone. But more often than not, the end begins long before the fighting stops. It begins when the fighting stops because […]
A person’s past is not a weapon to be wielded in a moment of anger. It is not an archive of ammunition to be drawn from whenever you feel insecure or want to win an argument. Yet, in many relationships, this is precisely what happens. A partner’s past mistakes, vulnerabilities they’ve shared, or versions of […]
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